My future. My mom has plans for my future.I began to understand that it sounds very good but...life is short?

and I really want to have fun...she wants me to become a dentist and study in the University and work and have a family...my idea is like this:after graduation of 12th grade I will move to an apartment for rent with 2 friends of mine and live there...study in colege for something,go to Europe with them and visit a guy I am inlove with in Sweden...he has a gf but she is from Latvia and she bitches at him and lies to him...she is very mean and I doubt they are having serious relationship....on the other hand,me and him have so many things in common and we really enjoy talking to eachother...anyway...after that I will come back to Canada,and study University for a dentist and then see what happens...what do you think?


I just want to have fun while I am young...is it wrong?

My future. My mom has plans for my future.I began to understand that it sounds very good but...life is short?
Very few people who take time off between high school and college ever end up starting college.





Your friends maybe all wild and excited about living together, but when each one gets a boyfriend and moves out, are they still going to give you their share of the rent money? How are you going to support yourself?





Guys who live in another country and tell you that they have a girlfriend aren't interested in you as a replacement for their girlfriend.





In European countries, children have more respect for their family and traditions. Americans are not welcome. Very few Europeans will dump someone of their own country for an American. They might use you for sex or money, but that's about it. Your dreams of this Swedish guy are incredibly naive.





Dentistry is an excellent profession. College does not get easier or cheaper for every year that you age. If after you finish college you want to waste your life that's up to you, but at least if you need it you will have a profession to fall back on.





Listen to your mother. That's why God gave us parents. They're older and wiser.
Reply:I don't believe in god.god doesn't exist.and you're stupid. Report It

Reply:eh **** your moms plans, if they're so damn good why doesnt she use them? Live a little!
Reply:man, thats tricky but you have to do what you want to do you cant live someone else's life, you have to break free and do whats best for YOU
Reply:once your done school tell you mother to go f*** herself. You will be miserable your whole life if you don't take the chance of moving in with your friends and having the greatest time.


go for it and good luck in Sweden.
Reply:ok... first... all parents have ideas of what kind of future their kids will have... so mom is normal... as for expecting you want what she wants... that is normal... for you to want different but similar things... also normal... your plans for your future seem sound... except...how can you know that the guy in Sweden is who he says he is... and their is no way to tell that he doesn't have a dozen different girlfriends all over the net... just be careful... it is so easy to be anything you want on the internet... seeing Europe would be cool, but make going to Sweden a part of the trip... keep in touch with your mom every day... there is white slavery rings in Europe that ake advantage of girls your age... and the internet is a way of luring the unknowing into a life that is unexpected and unwanted... yes, it is right to want to have fun while you are young... and while you are getting older... never lose the happy attitude... good luck with your mom.

wedding slippers