I asked a girl for marriage.she likes me so much too but she rejected it how can i convince her for marriage?

Hi im 22 and its about 2 years that ive fallen in love with my classmate and last year a asked her for marriage but she didnt accept it and her reason was that "we arent made for eachother,our families are defferent".my parents are dentists and her father is millioner because of his farming lands and her mother is teacher of literature.when i asked her for marriage last year and she disaccepted it we dident break off our relation.i always helped her in lessons,talking with each others and laghing and ...And my quastion is should i ask her for marriage after one year again or i should be more patient and wait for 2 or more years to ask her again?you know how realy i want her.

I asked a girl for marriage.she likes me so much too but she rejected it how can i convince her for marriage?
you must wait. i'm sorry but a year is too soon to ask her again, i know a lot of people who really loved or thought they loved each other and didn't marry because of family differences, some people may say that's wrong, but I know a lot of people who are going to stick to loyalty to their families, blood is thicker than water. Your family will always be there for you, you spouse can walk out on you at anytime. Respect her decision
Reply:Her excuse is nonsense, move along and quit wasting your time.
Reply:move on and think of her as a memory.good luck
Reply:You don't want to have to "convince" her into anything.
Reply:ya man u r wasting ur time after her.... if she loves u thn she wont tell u tht u both r not made for each other... so find a new gf and try to forget her.... i knw it wud be hard for u but u have to...
Reply:DO NOT PROPOSE TO THIS GIRL AGAIN!! The fact that you are "not made for each other and [your] families are different" will never change. She has no intention of marrying you. If she had said she simply was not ready marriage, it would be acceptable to ask her to marry you again in a year or two... or whenever both of you were ready.
Reply:I can see two people dating and not yet knowing if the other is right for marriage,yet...





But when either person finaly decides that the other is not who they want to marry that means it's time for both people to move on. She needs to let you go,and if she's not gonig to let you go, but knows she doesn't want to marry you ever, you need to move on and find some one else.





I can see if she was just not ready yet,then of course it would be fair to waite for her(for a certain period of time of course). But by what you said she told you,it sounds like she is not gonig to marry you anytime soon,or believes it won't work out. If she has such little faith in a future marriage, that just shows how much faith she has in you now. You both need to go into marriage fully faithful that it's something you'l make work.


You can't convince someone to marry you. Even if you do, she will resent you later on in life for it,and she may backstab you one day or leave you after feeling pressured to marry when she didn't want to deep down inside........





And you need to respect her wishes and feeling over any ones opinions or answers on yahoo answers. One thing I can't stand I when someone in a commited relationship talks about that stuff to people outside of the relationship. I don't think it's other peoples business. Especialy for married people(even though your not married) . She may not feel you respect HER enough,and she may not trust you. I see why,but Im being honest.

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