I met a real nice guy 3 months ago. He is sooooo fine, and he comes from a very wealthy family. He is so awesome! He is 19 and I am 18. He is in pre med in college. His father and mother are both doctors, and his sister has just become a pediatric dentist. This family lives in a "mansion", not a regular house, but a "mansion"! I feel so lucky to have met this guy because I am far from wealthy and so is my family. We are just average class people. He treats me so good, and he does not act like he is wealthy or better than just average people. This is my problem. My closest friends whom I have been friends with for years don't want to be around me any more. They say I'm dating someone out of my league and it won't last. They say I'm a "sell-out" to my own average income family and friends. That makes me feel so bad. I love my friends so much. I don't want to lose any of them but I really like this guy. I am so torn right now. What do I do? Please help.
Are my friends true friends, or should I dump them?
They sound jealous to me. Are you neglecting them for your BF? I think if they are really your friends, then you should be able to talk to them about it. Tell them how much you like this guy, and that they make you feel bad.
If they won't stop or be nice to you... then they made the choice to drive you away.
Reply:If this man treat you good and with respect you need to sit your girls down individually and privately and have a heart to heart chat. They should be supporting you. If you find a man that treats you well, and is trustworthy your friends should be happy for you. They are practicing reverse racism. Disliking someone because he is in a higher income tax bracket is rude. Also, right now is a student, with no income. He will have to work for his money. If they don't see the light, I guess you'll have to choose, but with friends who are so judgmental, you can probably do better. Good Luck
Reply:wow. some friends. DUMP THEM, keep the boy. and it's not your fault he's wealthy, and it's not like ur using him! and he LIKES you, so that's a plus!
good luck!
-rasari
Reply:Your friends are wrong here and they sound a bit jealous. First, if they're really your friends, then they should be happy for you that you met someone you like and especially someone of means who doesnt flaunt it. If he (and his family) don't act like they're better than you and his parents have accepted you, that is a great sign! Go ahead with the relationship and if your friends don't like it, tough on them!
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