I hate my family they're all retarded how do i get adopted into a different family ??

My mum left me and my brother with my dad.She abandoned me 2 years ago.She's re-married and wants nothing to do with me.My dad has mental problems and neglects me if i need to go to a doctor he just says 'walk it off' like wtf ? i cant walk off a fever.And i need to go to the dentist really bad coz i ahve a tooth ache and a lot of cavities and also my dad doesn't feed me right.Im malnourished and i don't have basic hygienic needs e.g shampoo and conditioner and deodorant and pads.


I have nobody to rely on.








How do i get help ?


is there some way the government could take me away from my abusive father ?


he's also an alcoholic.

I hate my family they're all retarded how do i get adopted into a different family ??
you can go to the police and ask them for a divorce from u and ur dad a lot of people do that when they have a jacked up family
Reply:call social services
Reply:Talk to a school counselor, if you are serious then they will be able to help you!
Reply:maybe you should contact family services in your state.
Reply:well, try to talk to your father first and when everything didn't change, I suggest you better see your relatives..
Reply:yeah, call the police and child services. or just go to hte station. say that you are being abused and stuff like.





or you can go to your Social worker or councelor at school. Say that your mother was also abusive...or make something up about your mom if you don't want anything to do with her.





your school will help. i'm sure.
Reply:Yeah, its time to call social services....they will most likely get you in a foster home...which could be better...at least someone will check up on you from time to time there.....


I am sorry that this is happening to you. If you are 14 or above, you only have a few years to go before you can get a job and start earning money (I was earning money under the table at 12yrs old....if you can land one of those jobs..it would also give you an excuse not to be home with dear old dad.


Either way you play it, I wish you the best!!!








IF your father is abusive physically and Alcoholic..I do not think talking to him is the answer


(This advise comes from a father of three!)


Its time to call the pros in ...
Reply:Ask to speak with a teacher / School principle / School counselor at your School, explain to them what you are going through , they know how to go about getting you the help you need. Things will change, be strong.
Reply:I went threw this when I was younger as well, and its not fun, its a scary and lonely thing..but i always thought of the future and how to make it better..what i suggest you do is just flip out on your father, try to put him in his place. if that doesnt work. go to relatives..thats what i did, and moved in with my grandparents after..if that doesnt work, i suggest you go to a friends family, maybe one of them can take you in..its never fun to be taken away by social services, because you doont want to be taken away from the place you know the most...but stay strong, and grow making the right decisions..now im on my own, and it went faster then you can imagine..if you need anyone to talk to, i know you dont know me at all..but i wouldve wanted someone to talk to in that situation..feel free to email me.





lorincz4you@aol.com





or aim.


notsuessn





goodluck with everything..remember..stay strong, and thing of the future...


things always get better.