What do you do if you and your whole family hates your sister's boyfriend?????

i am not sure how to handle this. my attitude has always been live and let live. my mom is so against this guy. my sister is 30 years old and has been dating this guy for a year. he is 27. he is in school, but will finish soon and graduate as a dentist. my sister recently finished law school. he is really sarcastic and mean towards my brother according to my mom. he picks on him because he was dumped by his girlfriend. he (the bf) laughed at my dad and said my dad said something that wasn't grammatical. plus, my mom says the bf is really unattractive, a real nerd. my parents had higher expectations for my sis. the bf is also cheap and his parents are hippie vegans. my parents think the bf is disrespectful towards them, our family, and brings out the worst in my sister. my sister says she loves him and he has declared his love for her. my mom thinks he is a dud and fears my sis will end up marrying him, having a kid and then waking up and getting a divorce.

What do you do if you and your whole family hates your sister's boyfriend?????
Tell your parents that if your sister loves him then it's none of their business who she marries because it's her choice and they can'tcontrol that or stop everything bad happening to her, coz bad things are going to happen.
Reply:let your sister think you like him, then point out subtly(if thats how ya spell it) the things that you all dont approve of when he does them, eg: why is he laughing at that-its not really funny
Reply:Nothing you can do. She is grown and you and your family need to leave her alone. When she gets criticism from you and your family who do you think she turns too? This only makes her relationship with him feel stronger. She has to find out on her own that he is the wrong man for her, if he is. All you are going to do is end up making her feel she cannot come to you and this is not a good thing. Abusive men tend to alienate the women they are with from family and friends and you and your family are helping him do this.
Reply:this person is ignort,school did nothing for him,he doesn,t know how to talk to people.he is very rude with your family.i,d say have a kangaroo court.this is everybody in the family and him sit down at a table or somewhere,you tell each other what bothers you about that person and than try to discuss how to be better.it may help.or someone in the family becomes a spokes person for everyone and talks with your sister and her boyfriend and tells them how everyone feels.he may be in the family for a while,so you need to do something.if your sister gets mad.tell her you guys are trying to get along but he,s not .good luck
Reply:I think you must force your sister to forget that boy . coz, if your parents dislike that boy then somewhere they are right , becoz they are well experienced than your sister. %26amp; if your sister have the guts then definately she will get a prince who will love her more than this boy. I didn't see him but i think he is not a right match for your sister %26amp; remember one thing that there is no one at the top in your life than your parents.


Good luck.