Monday, April 27, 2009

Is going back to school and raising a family feasible?

I am 22 years and have my associates degree. I recently became a father for the first time. I wanted opinions on whether raising a family and going back to school to be a dentist is a realistic goal. I want to provide for my family the best that I can. I would most likely have to start school all over because I didn't take that many science classes in my Associates. What do you think.

Is going back to school and raising a family feasible?
I'd go for it, especially now while your child is small, because it's so much easier now than it will be when he/she is older. I'm a full time student with three kids, ages 12, 10 and 5 and it's hard, but I know when I'm done, I'll have a career that pays well and will enable me to better support my family. Just make sure your wife is onboard with the plan - school is difficult, and you'll probably need her support to get through it. In the end, while it will be difficult, it will be well worth it.





Good luck to you.
Reply:It depends on your present financial status as well as cooperation you are likely to get from your family members during your studies. Also whether you stay home or go out of station for studies. If odds are favorable and it increases your earnings significantly in future, you can go for it. The decision is yours.
Reply:Go to school - two things will happen. You will prepare for a better future for your family starting in 4 years AND your children will see that university is a perfectly normal part of dad's life and begin to see it in their own future as well. Children learn what they live.
Reply:It's doable, but it's hard. You've got to spend time in class and studying at home, possibly working (full or part time) and spending time with your family. Think about what schedules will look like before you start. Consider your wife's input too.
Reply:It will be hard at first but the rewards will be great. I had a cousin who went back to school and on to medical school. He has no regrets and always tells me that it is never too late. Have faith and good luck.
Reply:Go for it!! It's never too late and you're still "young enough" to go back for 4 years (or more) to attain your goals. Your child(ren) will take it all in stride as part of your daily routine and just think of those end results - a better life for your family. It will be hard but persevere - life throws everybody some hard knocks - learn to roll.


No comments:

Post a Comment

Note: Only a member of this blog may post a comment.

 
vc .net