Family problems?

i seem to be like a mom to everyone but i'm a kid , i take care of everybody before myself and when i do that i seem to be under appreciated..i put off doctors,dentists appointments so i can make everything convenient for them i never have anytime to myself.. i have severe insomnia and while i'm awake at night and everybody else is sleeping i wash clothes and the dishes and when they wake up they just act like magical little elves came in during the night and did all the work.....


i try to talk to them but it doesn't seem to sink in, i don't have money to move out and i have no family members that will take me in and no friends either....








PLZ HELP...


WHAT SHOULD I DO??

Family problems?
It's very admirable of what you're doing. Lots more kids need to have your traits.





At the same time you're just a kid and need to start worrying about yourself a little. It seems that if you don't take care of yourself, then nobody will.





If you are in school, you can speak to a guidance counsellor. These people are trained to give you the best advice. That would help! Good luck.
Reply:I'm glad that I could offer a little advice! You're at an age where you 're starting your life and maturing into adulthood.





Give some time to yourself to go out there and make friends and meet new people.





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Reply:The real problem ur facing is dear,


ur feeling like ur too lonely, %26amp; there is no one to take care of u, nobody can understand u, ur like cornered. Am i right?





well, this is a common problem which everyone faces at this age, even i faced this kind of things, but beleive me they were something worse than this.





so its only up to u to fix things up %26amp; take things easy, the only way to com up in life is u should take things easy, u should understand people, u should try to compromise things, polite %26amp; a cute smile.





So to solve al these problems u need someone to share ur thoughts %26amp; feelings with, i can understand u have no one whom u can trust or be friednly with.


I can understand from the way u feel %26amp; speak that ur a very good kind person.


So dont worry dear, dont trust anyone specailly people over here, but not all most of em over here r flirting %26amp; being jerks, so its difficult to find true friends here, to share things with.


%26amp; u should not think of moving out frm the house for al these reason as i told u b4 take things easier, life is tough we should know how to make it easy %26amp; live it to the best.





%26amp; try to go to a doctor %26amp; get a check up for ur insomnia, before things go worse with it...





so if u need any help or if ur facing any sort of problem just let me know if u dont mind, as a friend im ready to give u some advice, ideas %26amp; help u anytime.





%26amp; im sorry im not so good in english but dont worry i can understand lil. lol
Reply:Take control of your life. If you don't do what you want with your life, you're gonna end up miserable. (It sounds like you already are miserable.)
Reply:why is it your responsibility to take care of everybody? don't put so much on your shoulders, the more you put, the more they will take from you. just stop doing, and, eventually, they will realize that they have to start doing for themselves. like yourself and put your needs first because it doesn't seem anyone else is. so you have to be kind to yourself.